Dutton and Painter argue that this trauma bond helps explain why people can feel magnetised back to relationships that are objectively bad for them – because the mix of danger and affection is familiar, not because it is healthy.
班德在大約2015年與「克林頓世界」決裂後被排除於核心圈外。他在2020年向《名利場》（Vanity Fair）表示，自己曾試圖在2002年非洲行程後，勸前總統遠離愛潑斯坦。該雜誌報導，班德表示他當時不知道愛潑斯坦的罪行，但感到不安，因此建議上司切斷關係。
，这一点在同城约会中也有详细论述
'Defensive attitude'
Barycentric Coordinates
While the questions "might seem a little bit probing", no one was being "judged" and it was important to get honest answers to invest in the right services for the island, she added.